As an Eurasian Male who looks Asian, was it wrong for me to value ual morality over being a playa pimp user?

In the west Asian men are considered women? I apologize for being so abrupt, but it really sounds like your barrage has more to do with your discomfort about being who you are. Figure out where your discomfort and judgment is coming from, realize you are a person of strength and value, stay away from people who aren't supportive of you and make peace with yourself.