Men, be honest with me if you can?

Lady you are never going to be the only broad he looks at. Get over it. Its not like he banged her on the service counter, they were TALKING. Sure, she was flirting. Whats your problem? Other women find your man attractive...that's good. And its nice to hear a compliment from someone who isn't obligated to give you one because you are married. It has nothing to do with fidelity. He is human and humans find other humans besides they're wives and husbands attractive... Your insecure and jealous and that is your problem. Get off your cross and be honest, you know damn well that you have checked out another man and have been flattered by the attention of strangers. Harmless flirting is nothing to get all pissy about and start questioning his dedication to your marriage. However, you wanting to keep his in a mason jar on your nightstand will probably push him into the arms of someone else. So chill the f**k out and stop thinking your world is crashing down when he is just having some conversation. Don't let your insecurities ruin your marriage because thats where your headed. Deal with what is making you so self conscious, and don't say its him because we both know its much deeper than that. This is about you and trying to control perfectly human appetites, do that and next time he WILL bend the service girl over the counter...